Pride should be a major part of everyone life. Unfortunately, it is not !!!!! To my beautiful women please have some pride in your appearance. When you get up from sitting down everyone around you should not have to see the crack of your butt. Belts are cheap and they don't hurt.
Another example is weaves.... Ladies if you do not have enough hair on your head to cover the track, go get a wig. IF you want to do your own weave that's fine, just take 5 minutes after you're done and see what we see when you step outside.
Please do not take pride as conceit. You don't have to have a great deal of money or name brand clothes to have pride. Its not what you wear its how you wear it. I can look just as fabulous in my $10 shirt as someone in their $1000 shirt. Its all about your confidence and Pride
Look I am not trying to be funny in any way I would like to see more young and/or old women take PRIDE in what they look like when they step outside the house. I believe all women are beautiful as long as they carry themselves with PRIDE.
Monday, May 18, 2009
Friday, May 8, 2009
Let's Chat
Thank you to those who visited my Blog, but in order for us to keep these chats going I need for you to COMMENT. Now that, that has been said lets get to the topic of the day.
Low self esteem is a big part of our young woman these days. Ladies if you feel the need to be with different men all the time and continuously to talk about other females, you have self esteem problems.
Ladies, young females, Grown woman let's face it we all at one point have gone thru some kind of self esteem issue. Although you may have not admitted to it, trust me you have. If you have to sleep with different men all the time thinking its because you the bomb, talk about every female that looks better than you (oh she think she all that), or need to wear something revealing to get attention in the streets then its your self esteem.
Have more pride in yourself and most of all more respect. You are worth so much more. Your body, mind and soul is worth more than a dinner and a movie. If he can't wait until you are old enough to handle having intimate relations then he is not the one for you. To my younger females, you are so beautiful and powerful that it amazes me that you don't even know it. Life is short and enjoying it doesn't mean degrading your body. Live life to make you a better person and in return you will be able to accomplish anything.
And to all females please stop hating on one another. If she is walking down the street looking fly like she is all that, its because she is. Who else other than you suppose to think you all that. Don't talk about the chick walking like she is the bomb, just hold your head and walk with confidence as well.
I would love to get feedback on these issues, so please feel free to comment, Thanks
Low self esteem is a big part of our young woman these days. Ladies if you feel the need to be with different men all the time and continuously to talk about other females, you have self esteem problems.
Ladies, young females, Grown woman let's face it we all at one point have gone thru some kind of self esteem issue. Although you may have not admitted to it, trust me you have. If you have to sleep with different men all the time thinking its because you the bomb, talk about every female that looks better than you (oh she think she all that), or need to wear something revealing to get attention in the streets then its your self esteem.
Have more pride in yourself and most of all more respect. You are worth so much more. Your body, mind and soul is worth more than a dinner and a movie. If he can't wait until you are old enough to handle having intimate relations then he is not the one for you. To my younger females, you are so beautiful and powerful that it amazes me that you don't even know it. Life is short and enjoying it doesn't mean degrading your body. Live life to make you a better person and in return you will be able to accomplish anything.
And to all females please stop hating on one another. If she is walking down the street looking fly like she is all that, its because she is. Who else other than you suppose to think you all that. Don't talk about the chick walking like she is the bomb, just hold your head and walk with confidence as well.
I would love to get feedback on these issues, so please feel free to comment, Thanks
Thursday, April 30, 2009
Relationships between mother's and daughter's
Today I would like to give an helpful incite on mother daughter relationships. I have a teenage daughter that I love dearly. To me you have to have a open relationship with your child so that they can be comfortable coming to you with any problems that they may have. Don't get me wrong, you must still be stern and let them know what they can and cannot do.
Some parents try to be just a friend and forget about the discipline, trust me that does not work, and mothers please stop waiting til your child is 5yrs or older to try and start to discipline. Do it from early and you will have a better turn out. Bond with your child, talking about life issues and building that trust is the greatest thing. Sometimes as adults we have to sit back and remember when we were that age.
My purpose with this blog is to get feedback from Mothers and Daughters on what they think about this kind of relationship. I would really love to talk to the young teens out there girls or boys. I am the type of person that love to listen to the kids point of view also. Who knows we might be able to help each other out.
Every week I am going to post new topics to talk about, it would not only be about mother and daughters. It would be about whatever you would like to talk about. I am not an expert as in the sense of me going to college on this, but I can say I am an expert from the life experiences I been through. I been through a lot in my life and instead of being mad I've always wanted to turn it in to a positive and reach out and help anyone that I can.
You can email me at anytime and I promise to read every email and respond personally.
Thank you for your time, Hope to hear from you soon.
Your friend
Nikia
Some parents try to be just a friend and forget about the discipline, trust me that does not work, and mothers please stop waiting til your child is 5yrs or older to try and start to discipline. Do it from early and you will have a better turn out. Bond with your child, talking about life issues and building that trust is the greatest thing. Sometimes as adults we have to sit back and remember when we were that age.
My purpose with this blog is to get feedback from Mothers and Daughters on what they think about this kind of relationship. I would really love to talk to the young teens out there girls or boys. I am the type of person that love to listen to the kids point of view also. Who knows we might be able to help each other out.
Every week I am going to post new topics to talk about, it would not only be about mother and daughters. It would be about whatever you would like to talk about. I am not an expert as in the sense of me going to college on this, but I can say I am an expert from the life experiences I been through. I been through a lot in my life and instead of being mad I've always wanted to turn it in to a positive and reach out and help anyone that I can.
You can email me at anytime and I promise to read every email and respond personally.
Thank you for your time, Hope to hear from you soon.
Your friend
Nikia
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